Ahhh, choices. We love them, we often feel we don’t have them… or do we?

 

The Wholly Human Initiative sees everything as Choice. Even if you find yourself in a situation you didn’t consciously choose, you still have Choice. You can choose how you see it, how you react in it, how you feel about it.

 

In the simplest terms, when working with any Choice:

• Choose It: Use the current information you have. Don’t assume what happened in the past must happen again. Don’t spin in the “what-ifs” of the future. You have a “set of cards in your hand” today, play them the best you can. Look for the Choice that best aligns with your soul Personality and soul purpose.

• Own It: You picked it, now it’s time to live it!

• Let It Go: Don’t waffle back and forth. Second guessing yourself usually creates dissatisfaction and creates leaks in your momentum.

 

If you figure out later that you were wrong with your Choice… look at the current cards in your hand and make another Choice.

 

Consider your habits. Do your habits support you? Make you feel stuck? Making choices from the same habits will likely keep you re-experiencing the same results.

 

Regarding other people and Choice:

• When you choose based on what you think others want or what you think is expected of you, you often end up diluting your own personal power.

• Your Choices likely affect the people around you, so it is fair to take them into consideration.

• You're likely going against your own Directives if you make Choices that deliberately hurt others.

• However, if you make your Choice based on what you think someone else wants instead of what you want, you will likely create other problems for yourself.

 

When you need to dig deeper, this question trail is designed to help you examine your Choices:

 

• Start with an RBQT-18” to strengthen the signaling in your Skin Suit.

• How did my Choices lead me to where I am today? Using Recognize -> Reconcile -> Release might help.

• How did the stories of my past define what I’m living today? How can I adjust them if needed? Examining your <Thoughts, Words, Actions> might help.

• How did the Persona I was using result in the choice I made? How would seeing my role/Persona differently result in a different choice? Examining your Personality and Personas might help.

• How do I feel polarized between two choices? If I get creative, is there another option I’m missing? Identifying your extremes with the Ping Pong Ball might help.

• How is my vibration aligning with what I want? If you need to change it, Clearing Your 18” might help. If you want to superboost it, Calibrating Your 18” might help.